| Bonding and Soothing Techniques | | Bonding and Soothing Techniques
Bonding, probably one of the most pleasurable aspects of infant care, occurs during the sensitive time in the first hours and days after birth when parents make a deep connection with their infant. Physical closeness promotes an emotional connection, and this attachment (bonding) will allow parents to make the sacrifices necessary to care for their child.For infants, the attachment contributes to their emotional growth, which also affects their development in other areas, such as physical growth. Another way to think of bonding is "falling in love" with your baby. Children who don't have a parent or adult in their life who loves them unconditionally will potentially have greater problems as they mature.Begin bonding by cradling your baby in your lap and gently stroking him or her in different patterns. If you and your partner both hold and touch your infant frequently, the baby will soon come to know the difference between your touches. Each of you should also take the opportunity to be "skin-to-skin," holding your newborn against your own skin while feeding or cradling.Babies, especially premature babies and those with medical... | |
| | How much money do you spend for a baby shower gift? | | How much money do you spend for a baby shower gift? I know sometimes it depends on how much money you're making but for example, I spent $20 and bought a blanket that was for a cousin's wife I didn't even like. For one of my good friends, I bought a bunch of baby rattles and toys that were cutsie for under $10. I personally liked the fact that I bought a lot for under $10 as a gift and I thought they were precious. The blanket was okay but not something I felt was personal. So how much do you spend and do you give personal gifts or will anything do? | |
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